你該懂得捨棄的7件事
“捨棄”不一定會失去更多，有時候反而會得到更多，因為捨棄，讓我們更能專注過生活，勇於捨棄的7件事。
1、捨棄說“隨便”的習慣
你一定有遇過不少“隨便”先生/小姐，當你問他們想吃什麼、想去哪時，他們都習慣說“隨便”，在年輕時，就應該捨棄說隨便的習慣，並且培養自己擁有獨自的主見，而不是跟隨著別人的想法。
2、捨棄不擅長的工作
每個人的時間有限，我們無法做完全部的事情，主管應該要懂得授權，而部屬則要懂得團隊合作，捨棄那些不擅長的工作，然後專注在自己擅長的工作上，
在年輕時，就要避免做自己不擅長的工作，因為不擅長的工作再怎麼努力，也比不上那些在這方面很擅長的人，用自己的劣勢去與別人的優勢相比，很難脫穎而出。
3、捨棄熬夜的惡習
大多數人在年輕時都有熬夜的習慣，熬夜看似我們花了更多的時間在工作上，其實效率可能沒有提高多少，反而還降低，熬夜除了讓我們可能晚起床之外，隔天精神也會受到影響，工作效率也會隨之下降，因此，年輕時就要捨棄熬夜的習慣。
4、捨棄常識
所謂的“常識”指的是傳統認為對的那些事，例如從小開始，老師、家長總是教我們該如何做、怎麼做，但那些卻不一定是對的，只有打破以往的既有認知，才能不受到傳統的小框框束縛。
5、捨棄負面詞彙
“負面詞彙”就是滋生負面情緒最好的來源，例如我不喜歡、我討厭、真的很令人生氣…等等。當我們抱怨時，我們就可能說出一大堆負面詞彙，情緒也因此受到影響。
懂得捨棄“負面詞彙”才能營造一個正向的人生，也才容易變得更正向、積極。
6、捨棄“什麼都想要”的想法
人必須學會捨棄的其中一樣東西，就是“什麼都想要”的想法，因為人的時間有限，我們無法做全部的事情，即使想做的事情有很多，我們也必須選取自己認為最重要的幾件事，然後專注在這幾件事情上面。
7、捨棄一成不變的生活
捨棄一成不變的生活，就是跳脫自己的舒適圈，當我們已經習慣了某種生活模式，我們進步的腳步就會在不知覺的情況下減緩下來，
因此，年輕時就要不斷跳脫自己的舒適圈，捨棄一成不變的生活，才能活出更好的人生、達到自己想要的成功。
人生九氣、九局、九品、九不懂、九不可
一、人生九氣：
1、閒時多讀書，博覽凝才氣；
2、眾前慎言行，低調養清氣；
3、交友重情義，慷慨有人氣；
4、困中善負重，忍辱蓄志氣；
5、處事宜平易，不爭添和氣；
6、對己講原則，堅持守底氣；
7、淡薄且致遠，修身立正氣；
8、居低少卑怯，坦然見骨氣；
9、卓而能合群，品高養浩氣。
二、人生九局：
1、寵辱之局：寵辱不驚。
2、得失之局：有小失才能有大得。
3、利害之局：見利必先思害。
4、禍福之局：福禍相倚。
5、貧富之局：貧而有志，富而不驕。
6、貴賤之局：貴賤皆人定。
7、苦樂之局：苦樂兩相依。
8、生死之局：明生死，重大義。
9、成敗之局：勝不驕，敗不餒。
三、人生九品：
自信，自信能成就一切但不傲慢；
謙虛，自知要學無止境但不自卑；
認錯，自省有缺點缺陷知錯能改。
感恩，感恩得到的一切；
知足，滿足享受的一切；
無為，安住現成的一切。
捨得，給予大眾分享所得；
包容，容納自他一切生命；
覺醒，覺悟宇宙人生真相。
四、九不懂
1、不懂珍惜，守著金山也不會快樂。
2、不懂寬容，再多的朋友也終將離去
3、不懂感恩，再優秀也難以成功。
4、不懂行動，再聰明也難以圓夢。
5、不懂合作，再拼搏也難以大成。
6、不懂積累，再掙錢也難以大富。
7、不懂滿足，再富有也難以幸福。
8、不懂養生，再治療也難以長壽。
9、不懂生活，活的越久就越沒勁。
五、九不可
1、有一種東西不可利用——善良。
2、有一種東西不可欺騙——感情。
3、有一種東西不可愚弄——真誠。
4、有一種東西不可缺少——友情。
5、有一種東西不可言傳——思念。
6、有一種東西不可原諒——背叛。
7、有一種東西不可拯救——絕望。
8、有一種東西不可忘懷——感恩。
9、有一種東西不可貪戀——名利。
此生必須知道的42條生活建議
從美容貼士到專業的職業建議，我們對生活中的各個場景都有特定的準則。我們不斷努力去利用我們經常接觸到的善良舉動來塑造我們獨特的個性。我們都知道不存在“對的時間”、“對的年紀”給生活帶來積極改變。所以下面給你42條人人須知的生活建議，現在看還不晚喔。
“LAUGH LOUDLY TO FEEL FREE AND DREAM BIG FOR SUCCESS”
“放聲大笑，隨心所欲，夢想成功”
The above life-mantra is all you need to know. Don’t be surprised as you must be thinking that the article is about 42 pieces of advice and here is just a single sentence.Actually the above single sentence is an acronym for all the 42 below given pieces of advice that will now be retained in your mind forever.
以上是你需要知道的全部生活真諦。千萬不要驚訝，
L.A.U.G.H.
1. L：LIVE Life to the fullest. 盡情生活。
2. A：Be AUDACIOUS in each and every nook of life situations. 勇敢面對生活的每一面。
3. U：Life is UNPREDICTABLE. Never forget this in time of hopelessness. 生活不可預知，在絕望時也不要忘記這一點。
4. G：Have GRATITUDE for each and every good thing that life offers you and in turn you will be rewarded with more smiles in life. 對生活中的每一件好事心存感激，這樣生活會回報你更多的歡笑。
5. H：Never give up on HOPE because that is what humanity consists of. People who hurt others, who do harm to their own species on the name of religion, cast or creed are the people who have already given up HOPE. So decide carefully before you cease to be a HUMAN.
永遠不要放棄希望，因為這是人性的組成。以宗教、種族、信條的名義傷害他人，殘害同類的人，都是早已放棄希望的人。所以在你放棄做人之前，要三思。
L.O.U.D.L.Y.
6. L：Be a good LISTENER. Rather than just speaking about yourself, allow others to speak. Listen carefully to others view point as this quality of yours can help you to develop your personality, improve your relationship, and be successful at all positions of your life. 做做一個好的傾聽者。不要老是談論自己，要給別人說話的機會。仔細傾聽別人的觀點，因為這個能力可以發展你的個性，改善你的社會關係，左右逢源。
7. O：Have OUT OF THE BOX THINKING. Having the same perceived notions as everybody else can never lead you to success. An out of the box thinking can prevent the routine boredom away and can make you more creative thus opening your mind to new ideas.
發展創造性思維。和別人擁有一樣的想法，你永遠不能獲得成功。創造性思維可以消除乏味，使你更具創造力，發散你的思維，相處新點子。
8. U：Develop your own UNIQUE IDENTITY. Stop being the part of a herd, rather use your own style and intellect which sets you apart from others.
培養獨特個性。不要做泛泛之輩，運用自己的聰明才智，和別人區別開來。
9. D：Never base your DECISIONS on an impulse. Important life Decisions should never be taken in moments of extreme emotions like in anger, in enthusiasm or in depression as it can make you regret later. 絕不因衝動而做決定。不要在極端情緒下做重大人生決定，比如生氣的時候，滿腔熱情的時候或者情緒低落的時候，這會讓你後悔不及。
10. L：Always keep LAZINESS at bay. Your lazy attitude can be a grave danger to your happy life, that accumulates your present problems and dump them into your future life.
不要偷懶。懶散的態度可能是你幸福生活的巨大威脅，它會累積你現有的問題，然後堆積到你未來的生活中去。
11. Y：Saying YES for everything can make your life problematic. You don’t owe anything to anyone, so it’s OK to say no for certain things you don’t like.
對一切事情都說“是”會給你的生活帶來麻煩，你不欠任何人，所以對不喜歡的東西可以說“不”。
T.O.
12. T：TRAVEL as much as you can until you are young and able. Meeting new people, exploring new cultures and visiting godly creations around is the only thing that can easily grip you in the awe and wonder of Life’s mystical creations. So travel and explore the beauty of life as much as you can.
在年輕力壯的時候盡可能多旅行。遇見不同的人，領略不同的文化，觀賞不同的創造，這是讓你能夠輕鬆感受到生活的驚奇之處的唯一方法。所以盡情旅行，領略生活之美吧。
13. O：Be a good OBSERVER. Try to observe and ponder what is happening around you. Be alert. Be awake. Often, the most extraordinary opportunities are hidden among the seemingly insignificant events of life. If you do not pay attention to these events, you can easily miss the opportunities.
要善於觀察。試著去觀察和思考你身邊發生的事。保持警惕，保持清醒。極佳的機遇常常隱藏在不起眼的生活小事中。如果你不注意，就很容易錯失良機。
F.E.E.L.
14. F：Ward off the FEAR of unknown. If you are afraid of being ridiculed or are frightened to cross the boundary of your dull life, you can never achieve your dreams.
消除對未知的恐懼。如果你害怕被嘲笑或是不敢打破乏味的生活，那就永遠不能實現自己的夢想。
15. E：Don’t carry your EGO with you all the time instead try to be what you really are. Because an ego ridden soul is always in the fear of being attacked by someone else and always live in a virtual world of their own, where they never try to imbibe the knowledge and facts given by others.
不要時刻以自負偽裝自己，努力做回自己。因為自負的靈魂常常害怕被別人傷害，生活在自己的臆想世界中，從而無法接受他人給予的知識和真相。
16. E：Inculcate EXERCISE in your daily routine. Think of the day when you were sick and you will surely realize the importance of good health. Without a good healthy body, it is impossible to concentrate your mind on something productive.
把鍛煉作為日常習慣。想一想如果你病了，你肯定會意識到健康的重要性。沒有健康的體魄，你肯定不能集中精力做有用的事。
17. L：LOVE yourself the most. Learn to love yourself first instead of loving the idea of someone else loving you. Because the foremost thing that is important in life and that is the key to a positive change in life is ‘you’ yourself.
努力愛自己。首先學會愛自己，而不是想著別人如何來愛你。因為你自己才是生命中最重要的，是能給生活帶來積極改變的關鍵。
F.R.E.E.
18. F：Develop the habit of FORGIVENESS. Yes, forgiveness is not always easy. But rather than holding a past grudge that can make your life hell and can harm you psychologically, try to become more strong mentally. It takes practice and effort to forgive, but it is well worth in the long run.
養成原諒的習慣。是的，原諒並不那麼容易。但是與其執著於過去的怨恨，使你的生活不如意，使你的心靈受到傷害，不如試著使內心強大起來。原諒不是一朝一夕的事，但是它值得我們長期為之堅持。
19. R：Always REMEMBER your past mistakes as this can lessen your chances of making mistakes in future.
時刻記得你犯過的錯，這有助於你將來減少犯錯。
20. E：Don’t be a EMOTIONAL fool. Try to be more pragmatic in life. Your emotions can sometime make you fall for the wrong person or thing.
不要做一個被情緒左右的傻瓜。在生活中務實一點。你的情緒可能會使你為一個錯誤的人或一件錯誤的事奮不顧身。
21. E：Make ENDURANCE your second nature. The power to withstand hardship or stress is not an attribute of a common man, only those who stand out of the crowd can show the quality of endurance. 學會忍耐。吃苦抗壓的能力是平常人所不具有的，只有那些出眾的人才會忍耐。
A.N.D.
22. A：Avoid AMBIVALENCE in life. Fix a certain goal in life and be sure of it. And once you have selected your priorities in life, abide by it instead of creating confusions in your life.
避免矛盾心理。確定一個生活目標，不要改變。一旦你決定了生活中的優先順序，就遵守它，而不要打亂它。
23. N：Learn from NATURE. Observe nature and learn from it. It can teach you many things that is normally hard to get.
向大自然學習。仔細觀察大自然，並從中學習。她能教會你很多難以學到的東西。
24. D：Be DARING. Never shy away from things that are right for you or for others. Even if the crowd around is just a mute spectator of an injustice, be bold and daring to come forward and put things right.
勇往直前。勇敢面對適合你或者其他人的東西，不要逃避。即使周圍的人對不公平的事情緘默不語，你也要勇敢向前，去做正確的事情。
D.R.E.A.M.
25. D：DREAM a lot. Never stop dreaming of achieving things you wish in your life. It keeps the fire of life burning. Only those who dare to dream are the people who finally strive to make their dream a reality. 敢於夢想。不要停止對渴望的事情的夢想。這是生命之火的源泉。只有敢於夢想的人，才能夢想成真。
26. R：READ as much as you can. You will not only improve your vocabulary but also your knowledge about the world, different cultures and various people that will expand the horizons of your normal mind. So inculcate the habit of reading in your daily schedule and you will automatically feel the difference.
多閱讀。不但能豐富你的詞彙，還能增加你的知識，讓你更加瞭解這個世界、不同的文化、各種各樣的人，開闊你的眼界。所以養成閱讀的好習慣，你自動會覺得非同一般。
27. E：ENJOY life to the fullest. Never cease enjoying life because of the new found responsibilities or because of the people around you otherwise the dullness of life will start haunting you, making you frustrated with your current situations. 盡情享受生活。 不要停止，因為新的責任或因為你身邊的人。不然你將無法擺脫乏味的
28. A：AVOID STRESS as much you can. Stress and strain has become a daily part of our normal life. But stress can be a source of unwanted problems that can make us weak not only psychologically but also physically. 盡可能避免壓力。壓力和負擔已經成為了我們生活中的一部分。但是壓力可能成為煩惱的來源，讓我們身心疲憊。
29. M：Believe in MIRACLES. Life is full of mystery that is unsolved till now and to believe in the existence of miracles makes it more mysterious. Thus the acceptance of our miraculous existence, indirectly adds a zing to the normal routine of our life. 相信奇跡。生活中滿是不可思議的事情，相信奇跡會發生會使生活更加奇妙。因此接受我們本身即使神奇的存在，給生活增加點活力吧。
B.I.G.
30. B：Let BYGONES be BYGONES. Never carry the burden of your past history in the present moment. 讓過去的就過去吧。不要一直背負著歷史的負擔。
31. I：IGNITE the fire within. Never let your inner strength be marooned by the negativities of life.點燃心中的火。絕不要讓你內心的力量陷入生活中的消極沼澤。
32. G：Never GIVE-UP in any situation. Remember that giving up your belief or faith in something because of an incident that has gone against your will, is not a solution to your problem. Always stand by your faith and see the impossible turning into possible. 在任何情況下都不要放棄。記住，因為不如你意的意外放棄信念不算是解決之道。也一直堅持信念，在絕境中找到轉機。
F.O.R.
33. F：Stay by the side of your FAMILY no matter how hard the situation is. 不管情況多麼艱難，都要占在家人那邊。
34. O：Be OPEN TO NEW IDEAS. Never be rigid in your thought process instead try to accept change and imbibe new ideas in your life. 接受新想法。不要固化思維，試著接受改變和吸收新想法。
35. R：Create a good RAPPORT around. Communicate in a well mannered way with others and always maintain a good reputation of yourself among the group of people you normally meet.與周圍的人保持良好關係。禮貌地和別人交流，在你常見面的人群中樹立良好形象。
S.U.C.C.E.S.S.
36. S：Learn to SHARE. Sharing is an important attribute in life that can make you realize the importance of giving to others.學會分享。分享是生活中的重要方面，能讓你意識到奉獻的重要性。
37. U：Be UNDERSTANDING to your fellow beings. You may never know what other person might have gone through in life so never be judgmental in your approach.理解你的同伴。你可能不知道別人生活中經歷過什麼，所以永遠不要從你的角度去評判別人。
38. C：Avoid getting trapped by COMPLEXES. So whether it’s an inferiority complex or superiority complex, never identify with any of them as they can easily steal away your natural charm and appeal.避免被各種情結陷住。不論是自卑情結還是自負情結，不要以任何一種來標榜自己，這會讓你天生的魅力和吸引力蕩然無存。
39. C：Be CURIOUS like a child. Never let the curiosity quotient drop in your life. As it is the only source that acquaints you with new knowledge and life discoveries.像孩子一樣充滿好奇。不要讓好奇心從你的生活中消失。這是你學習新知識、發現新生活的唯一途徑。
40. E：Be EMPATHETIC to other feelings. As it enables clear and helpful expressions of caring and concern and sends message to another of acceptance （rather than apathy or opposition）。 Thus it creates an atmosphere of trust and genuineness with the people around you.同情別人的感受。這能清楚地表達出你的關心，向別人傳達你接受他們的資訊，而不是冷漠無情或者反對。這讓你和周圍的人相互信任。
41. S：SPREAD JOY around. Live and let others live by being happy and sharing this happiness with the people around.傳播歡樂。快樂地生活，並且將快樂傳播給其他人。
42. S：Be a SANGUINE personality. Try to induce positivity in each and every act of yours. 保持樂觀。在每一個動作中都充滿積極情緒。
你永遠不能獲得成功。創造性思維可以消除乏味，使你更具創造力，發散你的思維，相處新點子。8. U：Develop your own UNIQUE IDENTITY. Stop being the part of a herd, rather use your own style and intellect which sets you apart from others.
培養獨特個性。不要做泛泛之輩，運用自己的聰明才智，和別人區別開來。
9. D：Never base your DECISIONS on an impulse. Important life Decisions should never be taken in moments of extreme emotions like in anger, in enthusiasm or in depression as it can make you regret later. 絕不因衝動而做決定。不要在極端情緒下做重大人生決定，比如生氣的時候，滿腔熱情的時候或者情緒低落的時候，這會讓你後悔不及。
10. L：Always keep LAZINESS at bay. Your lazy attitude can be a grave danger to your happy life, that accumulates your present problems and dump them into your future life.
不要偷懶。懶散的態度可能是你幸福生活的巨大威脅，它會累積你現有的問題，然後堆積到你未來的生活中去。
11. Y：Saying YES for everything can make your life problematic. You don’t owe anything to anyone, so it’s OK to say no for certain things you don’t like.
對一切事情都說“是”會給你的生活帶來麻煩，你不欠任何人，所以對不喜歡的東西可以說“不”。
T.O.
12. T：TRAVEL as much as you can until you are young and able. Meeting new people, exploring new cultures and visiting godly creations around is the only thing that can easily grip you in the awe and wonder of Life’s mystical creations. So travel and explore the beauty of life as much as you can.
在年輕力壯的時候盡可能多旅行。遇見不同的人，領略不同的文化，觀賞不同的創造，這是讓你能夠輕鬆感受到生活的驚奇之處的唯一方法。所以盡情旅行，領略生活之美吧。
13. O：Be a good OBSERVER. Try to observe and ponder what is happening around you. Be alert. Be awake. Often, the most extraordinary opportunities are hidden among the seemingly insignificant events of life. If you do not pay attention to these events, you can easily miss the opportunities.
要善於觀察。試著去觀察和思考你身邊發生的事。保持警惕，保持清醒。極佳的機遇常常隱藏在不起眼的生活小事中。如果你不注意，就很容易錯失良機。
F.E.E.L.
14. F：Ward off the FEAR of unknown. If you are afraid of being ridiculed or are frightened to cross the boundary of your dull life, you can never achieve your dreams.
消除對未知的恐懼。如果你害怕被嘲笑或是不敢打破乏味的生活，那就永遠不能實現自己的夢想。
15. E：Don’t carry your EGO with you all the time instead try to be what you really are. Because an ego ridden soul is always in the fear of being attacked by someone else and always live in a virtual world of their own, where they never try to imbibe the knowledge and facts given by others.
不要時刻以自負偽裝自己，努力做回自己。因為自負的靈魂常常害怕被別人傷害，生活在自己的臆想世界中，從而無法接受他人給予的知識和真相。
16. E：Inculcate EXERCISE in your daily routine. Think of the day when you were sick and you will surely realize the importance of good health. Without a good healthy body, it is impossible to concentrate your mind on something productive.
把鍛煉作為日常習慣。想一想如果你病了，你肯定會意識到健康的重要性。沒有健康的體魄，你肯定不能集中精力做有用的事。
17. L：LOVE yourself the most. Learn to love yourself first instead of loving the idea of someone else loving you. Because the foremost thing that is important in life and that is the key to a positive change in life is ‘you’ yourself.
努力愛自己。首先學會愛自己，而不是想著別人如何來愛你。因為你自己才是生命中最重要的，是能給生活帶來積極改變的關鍵。
F.R.E.E.
18. F：Develop the habit of FORGIVENESS. Yes, forgiveness is not always easy. But rather than holding a past grudge that can make your life hell and can harm you psychologically, try to become more strong mentally. It takes practice and effort to forgive, but it is well worth in the long run.
養成原諒的習慣。是的，原諒並不那麼容易。但是與其執著於過去的怨恨，使你的生活不如意，使你的心靈受到傷害，不如試著使內心強大起來。原諒不是一朝一夕的事，但是它值得我們長期為之堅持。
19. R：Always REMEMBER your past mistakes as this can lessen your chances of making mistakes in future.
時刻記得你犯過的錯，這有助於你將來減少犯錯。
20. E：Don’t be a EMOTIONAL fool. Try to be more pragmatic in life. Your emotions can sometime make you fall for the wrong person or thing.
不要做一個被情緒左右的傻瓜。在生活中務實一點。你的情緒可能會使你為一個錯誤的人或一件錯誤的事奮不顧身。
21. E：Make ENDURANCE your second nature. The power to withstand hardship or stress is not an attribute of a common man, only those who stand out of the crowd can show the quality of endurance. 學會忍耐。吃苦抗壓的能力是平常人所不具有的，只有那些出眾的人才會忍耐。
A.N.D.
22. A：Avoid AMBIVALENCE in life. Fix a certain goal in life and be sure of it. And once you have selected your priorities in life, abide by it instead of creating confusions in your life.
避免矛盾心理。確定一個生活目標，不要改變。一旦你決定了生活中的優先順序，就遵守它，而不要打亂它。
23. N：Learn from NATURE. Observe nature and learn from it. It can teach you many things that is normally hard to get.
向大自然學習。仔細觀察大自然，並從中學習。她能教會你很多難以學到的東西。
24. D：Be DARING. Never shy away from things that are right for you or for others. Even if the crowd around is just a mute spectator of an injustice, be bold and daring to come forward and put things right.
勇往直前。勇敢面對適合你或者其他人的東西，不要逃避。即使周圍的人對不公平的事情緘默不語，你也要勇敢向前，去做正確的事情。
D.R.E.A.M.
25. D：DREAM a lot. Never stop dreaming of achieving things you wish in your life. It keeps the fire of life burning. Only those who dare to dream are the people who finally strive to make their dream a reality. 敢於夢想。不要停止對渴望的事情的夢想。這是生命之火的源泉。只有敢於夢想的人，才能夢想成真。
26. R：READ as much as you can. You will not only improve your vocabulary but also your knowledge about the world, different cultures and various people that will expand the horizons of your normal mind. So inculcate the habit of reading in your daily schedule and you will automatically feel the difference.
多閱讀。不但能豐富你的詞彙，還能增加你的知識，讓你更加瞭解這個世界、不同的文化、各種各樣的人，開闊你的眼界。所以養成閱讀的好習慣，你自動會覺得非同一般。
27. E：ENJOY life to the fullest. Never cease enjoying life because of the new found responsibilities or because of the people around you otherwise the dullness of life will start haunting you, making you frustrated with your current situations. 盡情享受生活。 不要停止，因為新的責任或因為你身邊的人。不然你將無法擺脫乏味的
28. A：AVOID STRESS as much you can. Stress and strain has become a daily part of our normal life. But stress can be a source of unwanted problems that can make us weak not only psychologically but also physically. 盡可能避免壓力。壓力和負擔已經成為了我們生活中的一部分。但是壓力可能成為煩惱的來源，讓我們身心疲憊。
29. M：Believe in MIRACLES. Life is full of mystery that is unsolved till now and to believe in the existence of miracles makes it more mysterious. Thus the acceptance of our miraculous existence, indirectly adds a zing to the normal routine of our life. 相信奇跡。生活中滿是不可思議的事情，相信奇跡會發生會使生活更加奇妙。因此接受我們本身即使神奇的存在，給生活增加點活力吧。
B.I.G.
30. B：Let BYGONES be BYGONES. Never carry the burden of your past history in the present moment. 讓過去的就過去吧。不要一直背負著歷史的負擔。
31. I：IGNITE the fire within. Never let your inner strength be marooned by the negativities of life.點燃心中的火。絕不要讓你內心的力量陷入生活中的消極沼澤。
32. G：Never GIVE-UP in any situation. Remember that giving up your belief or faith in something because of an incident that has gone against your will, is not a solution to your problem. Always stand by your faith and see the impossible turning into possible. 在任何情況下都不要放棄。記住，因為不如你意的意外放棄信念不算是解決之道。也一直堅持信念，在絕境中找到轉機。
F.O.R.
33. F：Stay by the side of your FAMILY no matter how hard the situation is. 不管情況多麼艱難，都要占在家人那邊。
34. O：Be OPEN TO NEW IDEAS. Never be rigid in your thought process instead try to accept change and imbibe new ideas in your life. 接受新想法。不要固化思維，試著接受改變和吸收新想法。
35. R：Create a good RAPPORT around. Communicate in a well mannered way with others and always maintain a good reputation of yourself among the group of people you normally meet.與周圍的人保持良好關係。禮貌地和別人交流，在你常見面的人群中樹立良好形象。
S.U.C.C.E.S.S.
36. S：Learn to SHARE. Sharing is an important attribute in life that can make you realize the importance of giving to others.學會分享。分享是生活中的重要方面，能讓你意識到奉獻的重要性。
37. U：Be UNDERSTANDING to your fellow beings. You may never know what other person might have gone through in life so never be judgmental in your approach.理解你的同伴。你可能不知道別人生活中經歷過什麼，所以永遠不要從你的角度去評判別人。
38. C：Avoid getting trapped by COMPLEXES. So whether it’s an inferiority complex or superiority complex, never identify with any of them as they can easily steal away your natural charm and appeal.避免被各種情結陷住。不論是自卑情結還是自負情結，不要以任何一種來標榜自己，這會讓你天生的魅力和吸引力蕩然無存。
39. C：Be CURIOUS like a child. Never let the curiosity quotient drop in your life. As it is the only source that acquaints you with new knowledge and life discoveries.像孩子一樣充滿好奇。不要讓好奇心從你的生活中消失。這是你學習新知識、發現新生活的唯一途徑。
40. E：Be EMPATHETIC to other feelings. As it enables clear and helpful expressions of caring and concern and sends message to another of acceptance （rather than apathy or opposition）。 Thus it creates an atmosphere of trust and genuineness with the people around you.同情別人的感受。這能清楚地表達出你的關心，向別人傳達你接受他們的資訊，而不是冷漠無情或者反對。這讓你和周圍的人相互信任。
41. S：SPREAD JOY around. Live and let others live by being happy and sharing this happiness with the people around.傳播歡樂。快樂地生活，並且將快樂傳播給其他人。
42. S：Be a SANGUINE personality. Try to induce positivity in each and every act of yours. 保持樂觀。在每一個動作中都充滿積極情緒。
