虎媽戰歌英文讀後感
I have recently read Battle Hymn of Tiger Mother published by The Penguin Press in 2011. This autobiography was written by the Chinese American woman Amy Chua, a tenured professor in Yale Law School. She causes a sensation because her strict but unique parenting which brings excellent performance of her two daughters.
This autobiography tells the course of Amy Chua how she raised the two daughters in Chinese parenting way. It is divided into three parts. At the first part, it gives some introductions of the two daughters, the family. And in the second and third parts, the writer tells more details in the process of raising her two different daughters and the difficulties she was confronted in the process, and most importantly the success the daughters achieved in music which brought Amy Chua pride as well as the whole family.
To some extent, I don’t like Amy’s parenting in some aspects. In my opinion, she deprived the nature of children and pushed too much pressure on their children, especially on Lulu who was under the shadow of her excellent elder daughter—Sophia. While I was reading the third part in the rebellion part, I couldn’t control my own emotion, I felt what Lulu felt and even hated against her selfish and autocratic mother. I couldn’t understand why Amy didn’t let Lulu get up from sit, for water, not even to go to the bathroom when Lulu just wanted a rest during the long hours’ practice of violin. She made Lulu practice violin all day during the family’s vacation abroad. She spoiled the vacation by letting the other family members waiting the practice. She was unreasonable.
But next what I do is to admire her.
There is an old Chinese saying “property can never last for three generations”。 But Amy Chua did change it! Her parents came to U.S and suffered a tough life at the very beginning. They taught Amy math and piano in an extreme strict way when she was a kid. Under the influence of her parents, now Amy is frugal and pretty strict with her daughters and herself. They are the valuable points of her. Although she is so extreme on her parenting, she has the advisable ideas that the parents and the parents to be to learn.
Firstly, as parents, they couldn’t ignore their children and put all focus on their job. There is no excuse for not concerning their children. Except supervising her daughters, Amy Chua has to give lessons in university, write books and handle the family chores. She is so busy, but she doesn’t ignore the daughters.
Secondly, parents should be strict with their children especially when they are kids because kids lack of self-control. They should not indulge their children in internet or sleepovers.
Thirdly, parents should master some skills in parenting. As a matter of fact, there are so many Chinese parents who are strict with their children with no avail of success. Success can’t be totally copied, because some parents ignore the skills in parenting. When their children don’t follow their will or perform well enough to satisfy them, they will lose their temper and even beat their children, yes, of course, Amy Chua will be mad but she won’t beat her daughters, in this condition, she will be sober and wait until her daughters perform well enough. She learnt some music knowledge in her children’s class and supervised them patiently. She knew where to correct the mistakes and gave the children extraordinary success.
Tiger mother aroused a big heat in parenting and threw such an important issue for us to think about. Battle Hymn of Tiger Mother gives us really some enlightenment. Anyway, that’s a really unique experience in reading this book.
虎媽戰歌英語讀後感
Earlier this year, a book on parenting memoir of the tiger mother battle hymn sensation in the United States, sparking a heated debate about education thought idea, this also caused wide attention of the Chinese people.
The author Amy chua, a chinese-american, Harvard University, bachelor of arts and doctor of law, the Yale university professor. Approximate the sheep in Europe and the relaxation education situation, Ms. Chua in Chinese parents' high expectations and strict parenting to two children
Finally two children are outstanding, learning and music are all very good, is the envy of achievements, locally known as music child prodigy. The tiger mother warsong "revealing the author experienced a course of raising two children and parenting experience.
Read the book, page by page feel Amy chua education child's real and true feelings, amazing chua's devotion and dedication, experience the extraordinary Cai Meier and absolute, step by step into the joys and sorrows of the author, Amy chua and her two children image lifelike show in sight.
Cai Meier writes:
Become an "expert, actually there is no fun at all. Any skills to master, must pay the hard work. And from the nature of children, never love. Therefore, the beginning don't give them opportunities to choose don't work hard, it becomes crucial."
"Don't give children choose not to opportunity", became the basic idea and starting point of the Cai Meier parenting. Nothing is born like hard. The children more love with open arms to embrace. American education special emphasis on respect for the child, often give children the right to choose. As a result, many children will choose to give up very easily. And as a parent, the most unfavorable to protect the behavior of the child's self-esteem, is to see their children gave up the attempt in the face of hardship, but their inaction.
Don't give children choose don't work hard, is to help children choose to chance. Let the child choose a meaningful things, then concentration and strength to rush toward, perseverance. Actually, the process itself, the children can benefit from life. Develop children treatment enterprise "concentration and strength to rush toward, perseverance" attitude and will quality, this is the direction of chua's parenting. Don't give children choose don't work hard, this is really a parenting is the best choice. Strict management and supervision, it is Amy chua's parenting patterns, Chinese traditional education mode is Amy chua said.
朝花夕拾阿長與山海經讀後感(一)
讀了這篇文章,我知道了這是描述兒時與保姆長媽媽相處的故事。魯迅先生寫出的是一個“切切察察”、喜歡“告狀”、睡覺愛擺“大”字的長媽媽。也寫了她懂得的許多“我聽不耐煩”的規矩,比如元旦、除夕吃福橘、人死了要說老掉了。這篇文章主要圍繞著《山海經》,寫我對長媽媽的感情變化,由最初的我不大佩服她,最後我對她又有了新的敬意,是因為她給我買了《山海經》。
這篇文章一共講了七個小故事:一、我誤認為長媽媽謀死寵物隱鼠。
文章不同的稱呼代表了長媽媽不同的地位,以及作者對她的不同的感“阿長”稱呼更為合理。而作者寫這篇文章是以四十六歲,以現在的年齡來寫,用阿長更合適,同時“阿”字帶有親昵的語氣。
對於《山海經》這一部分,一個農村婦女,目不識丁,但是又和艱澀難懂的《山海經》聯繫起來,這不禁讓人心生疑惑,迫切的想要到文章中去尋找這二者之間的聯繫。而長媽媽用自己的血汗錢為“我”買來了《山海經》,更能體現出阿長對我的關愛。
這篇文章很好的寫出了長媽媽是一個處於社會底層的普通勞動婦女,
朝花夕拾阿長與山海經讀後感(二)
魯迅對長媽媽懷有深厚的感情,在《朝花夕拾》中就有好幾篇文章回憶到長媽媽有關的往事,其中《阿長與山海經》是專門回憶和紀念她的。
這是—篇紀實性的文章。文章真實而親切地再現了魯迅童年時與長媽媽相處的情景,表現了長媽媽的性格特點。魯迅通過對兒時往事的回憶,表達了對長媽媽這樣一個勞動婦女的深深懷念。
文章先介紹了人們對長媽媽的稱呼,
文章著重寫了我幼年時與長媽媽的一段經歷。長媽媽是一位保姆,而我對她的印象能如此深刻,可見我對她的感情至深。文章也進一步介紹了她的名字、體形等。文章主體在於圍繞《山海經》,寫我對長媽媽的感情變化。由最初的我不大佩服她,最後我對她又有新的敬意,
長媽媽是一位經歷滄桑的人,這裡不僅寫她迷信,有麻煩的禮節,而且突出了她的偉大,別人不肯做或不能做的,她卻成功了。很好地概述了一個人物形象。而我對長媽媽的感情也是文章的關鍵,文章的主體把握及最後對她的緬懷、祝福,都能說明感情很深。
長媽媽這樣一個藝術典型形象,獨特而不平凡,也揭示了封建社會比較黑暗、腐朽的事實。魯迅此篇文章包含著愛心與同情。讓我們再次回到淳樸的年代,去關心身邊的每一個人吧!
朝花夕拾阿長與山海經讀後感(三)
這篇文章是出於魯迅先生之手,也是我們即將學習的課文,它主要講述了:魯迅小時候的保姆——阿長的外貌及名稱來歷。
繪,《山海經》。所以,“我”又敬佩她了!
這篇文章雖是說阿長有時“切切察察”愚昧迷信。但也寫出了她的性格是淳樸、寬厚、仁慈、樂於助人。
讓我們大家仔細的觀察一番,我們身邊不就是缺少真誠、淳樸、寬厚、仁慈、樂於助人的人嗎?也讓我們大家行動起來,在公車上給老人讓座,別人做錯事要學會寬恕,安安穩穩的做一個老實人!
在文章中,正是這位勞動婦女的美德,使作者對她產生了,無限的懷念之情。她是一個沒有社會地位,連名字都無人知曉的勞動婦女,