名利場讀後感(一)
終於把薩克雷的《名利場》看完了,超滿足的!雖然這本書在剛開始看的時候覺得很亂,但是慢慢看下去就會發現這本書的迷人之處。
我覺得這本書有兩個女主角——愛米利亞和利蓓加,這兩個完全不同性格的人兒竟有著驚人相似的經歷,都嘗盡了人生的酸甜苦辣。愛米利亞性格懦弱溫和,體貼,對自己的丈夫始終如一,雖然後來再婚也不能否定她對丈夫的忠誠。她小時候也算是一個富家小姐,到她從學校畢業後家裡發生好多不如意的事後才逐步走向貧窮,幸而後來有哥哥喬斯和朋友都賓的幫忙,
在這本書裡,我最“佩服”的是利蓓加,她的說謊伎倆是如此高深啊,逗得所有人為她辦事,弄得羅登。克勞萊為她如此賣命,為她付出一切,但是她卻好像從來沒有把他看作是自己的丈夫,而是看作一個可憐的僕人,甚至對自己的兒子,她也從不關心,最讓我印象深刻的是小羅登在伯伯家做客時,利蓓加為了顯示自己對兒子所謂的愛,吻了小羅登一下,後來小羅登說“媽媽從來沒吻過我”哈哈,這是第一次啊!這讓利蓓加多尷尬。最終她和羅登鬧翻了,
我覺得最苦命的不是愛米利亞,而是都賓少佐。他對愛米利亞的愛可謂是讓人為之驚歎啊!在愛米利亞落魄時,是他在背後默默地資助;在喬治(愛米利亞的丈夫)戰死後,他又默默地幫愛米利亞撫養他們的兒子——小喬傑,只為了愛米利亞有一天可以接受他的愛,只是愛米利亞一直都執著於對喬治的感情。最後,他覺悟了。對愛米利亞敞開了心扉,既然她不接受,就不再強迫了,放手會更好,他離開了,她又傷心不舍了!幸虧利蓓加給她看了喬治給自己的私奔信,愛米利亞的心結終於解開了,
再說說利蓓加吧,畢竟她也是女主角。她在和丈夫鬧翻後,被勒令不能回國,她便在歐洲各國流浪,雖說有羅登的撫養費,日子還過的下去,但是一個女人無依無靠,並且她在每一個地方樹立起來的形象每次都被熟人給破壞了,因為她在英國的名聲實在是太壞了!她在風光時認識的貴人在她落魄時都對她視而不見,這該讓她多難受啊!但人生就是這樣,每個人都無法逃避。
人生就是一個名利場,每個人在裡面的命運都是差不多的,
名利場讀後感(二)
前些日子看完了薩克雷的<名利場>,書中描寫了19世紀驕奢淫逸的貴族,滿身銅臭的資本家,流氓無賴式的鄉紳,以及紈絝子弟,吸食殖民地人民血汗的寄生蟲,等等。他們驕橫,貪婪,趨炎附勢,往往翻臉無情。他們不斷于外人勾心鬥角,在家族內部也是你爭我鬥。
貫穿全文的家庭教師——麗蓓卡夏普小姐,出身貧寒,狡猾無比,挖空心思想擠入貴族社會,不惜背叛友情,棄親生兒子于不問不顧,利用自己的美貌勾引得勢貴族,把丈夫當做自己交際的道具……費盡心機的她最終被人們所不齒。到頭來竹籃打水一場空,
主人公阿米麗亞——塞得利小姐,雖然溫和善良,卻在感情方面卻是自私無比。始終如一戀著的丈夫,卻在新婚後幾天的工夫就打算和別人私奔,她雖有所懷疑,但卻愚昧地認為是自己多心而放任丈夫。不久之後的滑鐵盧戰場上,她不忠的丈夫便死于敵人的亂槍之下。懷有身孕的她由於先前自己的婚姻未能得到夫家的認可,只得與破產的父母一起,靠死去丈夫的一點補貼和殖民地稅務官哥哥的一點救助勉強度日。始終如一愛著她,幫她與她的丈夫秘密結婚,在她父母破產後家產拍賣會上高價買回她心愛的鋼琴並秘密送回給她(她以為是她"親愛的丈夫"買回給她的),在她丈夫戰死後秘密拿出自己的薪金當作她丈夫的遺產給她當生活費,在她的孩子出生後默默關懷她們母子生活的杜賓,(為人坦誠,心地善良。在部隊裡得到人們的尊敬和愛戴。)卻總也得不到她的愛情,多少年來,多少女人想要嫁作他婦?而他卻十幾年未變,為她繼續默默的付出,默默的等待,頭髮白了,心也差不多倦了快要死了,這時候,阿米麗亞終於在夏普(戲劇性也就在此了)的嚴斥下拋開了那張每天像看神像一樣面對著它傷心流淚,頂禮膜拜的死去了的丈夫的畫像,接受了杜賓。但在杜賓眼裡,走下神壇的她已不再是他心目中的女人……
"啊,一切都是虛幻!我們活在世上,有誰真正快樂?誰能稱心如意?遂了心願,誰又覺得滿足?"
曹雪芹說過"機關算盡忒聰明,反送了卿卿性命"。很多時候,我們找不出自己失敗在什麼地方,殊不知卻是過多的使用了自己的"聰明",機關算盡,聰明反被聰明誤!
19世紀的社會是一場虛幻集市,現在的社會不也是一場虛幻集市嗎?人生,只不過是趕一場集罷了。有的人在這場集市上交易得手,有的人在這場交易上一無所獲!這就是唯一的差別了!
名利場讀後感(三)
掙扎于名利場中,心頭的塵埃何時才能落定?
名利場是一個浮華的世界,處處彌漫著塵埃。它蒙蔽了人們的眼睛,並定格在心靈的浪尖上,永不散落。因此,人們總愛在名利場中為自己找一個漂亮、華美的位置,借此炫耀自己,於是便頭也不回地走入了那個浮華的世界。人們不惜借助一切力量邁進所謂的上流社會,將真情與友愛拋到九霄雲外。金錢、權利成了他們唯一的追求。然而金錢再多,權利再高,總是會有一個極限,而人的貪婪的心則永遠也無法填滿,誰也走不出這名與利所編織的網,它往往會掐住你的脖子讓你身不由己。
蓓基?夏潑就是渴望進入上流社會的典型。本來她也是一個聰明、美麗的女孩子,可名利誘惑了她。那名利場中的塵埃將她緊緊裹住,於是她變得虛偽、貪婪,也許在她動人親切的言辭背後,卻有著無人知曉的謾駡;又說不定在她美麗誠懇的笑容下,有著令人喪命的刺刀。誰能理解那種“善良”下藏著什麼呢?蓓基?夏潑為了達到進入上流社會的目的,她利用自己的友誼、愛情、婚姻,又不惜出賣朋友,出賣丈夫來為自己鋪著通向那“高貴社會王國”的紅地毯,她那時真時假的形態,迷惑著窮人,卻也在玷污自己。
蓓基?夏潑是活潑美麗的,在沒有認清她以前,人們為她的貧窮、孤苦而憐憫她;然後又為她在社會上的富麗而羡慕她、愛她。迷人的蓓基?夏潑啊!可一切總會有水落石出的一天,因為,表面的熱情,無法掩藏內心的憎恨。再華麗的外衣,卻總掩飾不了醜惡的靈魂!()在人們認清她之後,誰不唾棄她,厭惡她呢?她的最好的朋友艾米莉婭最後也遠離她,丈夫也不理睬她,兒子不想見她,為一時的華麗與虛偽,她不知道自己付出了多麼大的代價!
當名利有了千瘡百孔時,這才知道,在它最華麗的時候,竟有太多的虛偽,只因為當時我們在名利場上過於投入而不知,等到什麼都看透,才知道所謂的名利不過是刹那煙花。名與利,固然可求,但那並不是生活的全部,人如果過分追求名利,名利就會成為心頭最大的誘惑,人也因此變得貪婪、虛偽,失去了自我,失去了一顆純潔的心。
掩卷沉思,生命中除了名與利還剩下些什麼呢?也許,觥籌交錯,燈紅酒綠中,你會發覺你要的不僅僅是恭維、奉承,還需要一種坦然與真誠,只要善於發現,生活中比名利更重要的還很多很多,面對著寧靜的湖泊和茂密的森林,用一顆大智慧者的心,簡單地活著,簡單地思考,並不是為了名利而活,以出世的心情和入世的態度來體認善良、寬容、謙和、淳樸、友愛、和平與寧靜,尋找身體和心的歸宿,讓時光從你的身外從你的心內慢慢地流逝如水,從中領略生命的全部意義。
走出名利場吧,抹去心靈的塵埃,送上一份慰藉,又何嘗不美麗?人一輩子為名忙,為利忙,而沒有一份心靈釋然的快感,到白髮蒼蒼時定會遺憾,何必為名利犧牲生命的原滋原味呢?
遠離塵囂,尋找一份愛的淨土,塵埃已然落定。
後天英文讀後感
People always thought that probably as a human on the planet Earth is the most senior animal owners who dominate nature. Can be wanton destruction of the earth, nature mutilations. Also for the immediate interests of the greedy nature and the blood drained 、 the nature of the skin stripped 、 nature of the meat-eating. With the thought this will be what kind of consequences. Also claimed ignorance 、 elated to conquer nature. Sing really ridiculous. If another Ice Age in front of us, the humanity will be caught unprepared? Human nature can conquer? No, summer 2004 opening large - 《acquired》 given us a loud and affirmative answer to the question. This terrible disaster films told us an irrefutable truth - always dominate the natural person.
"Acquired" the film depicts the United States as a representative of the Earth within one day suddenly nose-dive into glacial science fiction stories. In the story, climate scientists Jack. Hall observed in the study pointed out that prehistoric climate, the greenhouse effect brought about by global warming could trigger an unprecedented global catastrophe. Mainly refer to the destruction of the beautiful human nature, but by the serious nature of the punishment. Lightning 、 、 hail storm 、 tornado 、 hurricane 、 、 floods caused by global warming, such as the melting of Antarctic ice disaster befall humans, before human consciousness to know repentance may have been too late. In an instant because of the disaster emerged, floods, in the eyes; hail, in the eyes; all in the eyes of force majeure. Entry into the Earth's greenhouse effect will glaciation. Tornado 、 earthquake tsunami 、…… So you ask that the name will become a natural part of human life. In the film, you can see New York City inundated lens: the confusion of the crowd the air vehicle broken glass, followed by the floor, as high waves… you can see in the seaside holiday resort in Hawaii hit by the hurricane scene. This is the destruction of the natural consequences, and this is the punishment of mankind. For thousands of years, continually engulfed in the natural human body, should now enjoy nature of the pernicious consequences of brewing.
名利場英語讀後感
Bunyan once in his book named Pilgrim’s Process described a place named ‘Vanity Fair’ where all kinds of vanity are sold, such as houses, lands, honors, preferments, titles,lusts, pleasures and delights of all sorts. As a matter of fact, we are living in such place today. We gradually become the participants of this fair and loyal followers of these hollow things. Espencially our modern grils’ changing view toward marriage, money and social status. They believe that they could easily live a life like a grand lady without making any efforts if they marry a wealthy man. As female college students, how to stick to our own belief and aviod being assimilated by the complex society, Thackeray’s novel Vanity Fair could give us a good instruction. Through the Rebacca’s attitude towards money, social status and marriage, I realize what is most important thing for a female.
Thackeray described the life of ruling classes of England in the early decades of the 19th century, and attacked the social relationship of bourgeois world by satirizing the individuals in the different strata of the upper society. Rebacca(becky) Sharp is a classic example of the money-grubbing instinct. Her only aspiration in life is to gain wealth and position by any means. Thackeray does not regard Rebacca as an exception. Everyone wishes to gain something in the Vanity Fair and acts almost in the same manner as Rebacca.
As an orphan, Rebacca’s birth can easily win our tears. It is an undenible fact that she is quite an ambitious and clever girl. As far as I am concerned, she could easily live a decent life with her own hand. However, because of the society and the innate deficits in her characteristics, she becomes very sophisticate and even tried to suduce her best friend’s brother so that she could win her place in the upper society and other’s admiration. However, for the people in the upper class, Rebacca’s humble birth cuold never be erased even though she married a rich man. In other’s eye, she was just a coquette who was quite good at suducing rich men. Why not use your own hand to create a bright future and win others’ true respect instead of relying on the man’s shoulder.
Rebacca liveed in a society which is ruled by money, everyone was crazy about money, Rebacca was no exception. She held the dream of living a life of a grand lady, wearing luxurious clothes and shining dimonds. In order to realize her dream, she used all kinds of immoral means to win the love of rich men. Finally, she got married with Rawdon Crawley, a good man who will inherit a large sum of money from her ant. However, the old lady refused because Crawley married Rebacca---a woman of low social status. Rebacca and her husband live a quite luxurious life in Pairs even though they could not make the both ends meet. Finally, Mr.Crawley was put in to prison because of heavy debets, while Rebacca started searching for another rich man who can pay for her luxurious bills. Rebacca betrayed her soul in the process of pursuiting money and gradually forgot the meaning of love.
Marriage is a holy thing in everyone’s life, but if you regard marriage as a good method of gaining money and improving your social status, you will suffer a lot from it. Although you live a decent life and gain other’s admiration,you may never be ture happy because you never know what is love and responsibilty. Rebacca’s marriage is a good example. She took a quite easy attitude towords marriage. Her marriage was just a method which helped her get in to the upper class and live a rich life. Ther is no wonder that she was so cruel to her husband and flirted with another rich man when her husband was in the prison. Here I want to mention another female----Amelia, a girl of simple mind. In Rebacca’s mind she was a fool. At first, she held the same view as Rebacca. Her husband’s death in the war made her become a sorrowful widow. Till one day Rebacca told her that her husband once asked Rebaccato run with him. Amelia was angry and married a man who has taken care of her for several years uncomplainly. Amelia is not a cold hearted women, although her dream of being a grand lady had vanished,but she experienced a life of being truly loved. While for Rebacca, she will forever lived in the Vanity Fair and never has the chance to experience this kind of love. In my eye , Amelia is wiser than her.
Rebacca is a tragic female during that period. Although this novel ended with a happy ending--- Rebacca got marriad with Amelia’s brother and inherited a large sum of money, liveed a grand lady’s life ---who dare to say that Rebacca will stop betraying her soul and keep away from Vanity Fair? I would like to give an advice to her and to the grils in our modern society: please keep always from Vanity, and take a correct attitude towards money, social status and marriage. Money is not every in our life. The improvement of our social status needs our own efforts instead of relying on others. Mrriage is a holly thing in our girls’ life, which requires our responsibility and loyalty. Or we will forever live in a hollow world and the dream of vanity will finally destory us.
在她丈夫戰死後秘密拿出自己的薪金當作她丈夫的遺產給她當生活費,在她的孩子出生後默默關懷她們母子生活的杜賓,(為人坦誠,心地善良。在部隊裡得到人們的尊敬和愛戴。)卻總也得不到她的愛情,多少年來,多少女人想要嫁作他婦?而他卻十幾年未變,為她繼續默默的付出,默默的等待,頭髮白了,心也差不多倦了快要死了,這時候,阿米麗亞終於在夏普(戲劇性也就在此了)的嚴斥下拋開了那張每天像看神像一樣面對著它傷心流淚,頂禮膜拜的死去了的丈夫的畫像,接受了杜賓。但在杜賓眼裡,走下神壇的她已不再是他心目中的女人……"啊,一切都是虛幻!我們活在世上,有誰真正快樂?誰能稱心如意?遂了心願,誰又覺得滿足?"
曹雪芹說過"機關算盡忒聰明,反送了卿卿性命"。很多時候,我們找不出自己失敗在什麼地方,殊不知卻是過多的使用了自己的"聰明",機關算盡,聰明反被聰明誤!
19世紀的社會是一場虛幻集市,現在的社會不也是一場虛幻集市嗎?人生,只不過是趕一場集罷了。有的人在這場集市上交易得手,有的人在這場交易上一無所獲!這就是唯一的差別了!
名利場讀後感(三)
掙扎于名利場中,心頭的塵埃何時才能落定?
名利場是一個浮華的世界,處處彌漫著塵埃。它蒙蔽了人們的眼睛,並定格在心靈的浪尖上,永不散落。因此,人們總愛在名利場中為自己找一個漂亮、華美的位置,借此炫耀自己,於是便頭也不回地走入了那個浮華的世界。人們不惜借助一切力量邁進所謂的上流社會,將真情與友愛拋到九霄雲外。金錢、權利成了他們唯一的追求。然而金錢再多,權利再高,總是會有一個極限,而人的貪婪的心則永遠也無法填滿,誰也走不出這名與利所編織的網,它往往會掐住你的脖子讓你身不由己。
蓓基?夏潑就是渴望進入上流社會的典型。本來她也是一個聰明、美麗的女孩子,可名利誘惑了她。那名利場中的塵埃將她緊緊裹住,於是她變得虛偽、貪婪,也許在她動人親切的言辭背後,卻有著無人知曉的謾駡;又說不定在她美麗誠懇的笑容下,有著令人喪命的刺刀。誰能理解那種“善良”下藏著什麼呢?蓓基?夏潑為了達到進入上流社會的目的,她利用自己的友誼、愛情、婚姻,又不惜出賣朋友,出賣丈夫來為自己鋪著通向那“高貴社會王國”的紅地毯,她那時真時假的形態,迷惑著窮人,卻也在玷污自己。
蓓基?夏潑是活潑美麗的,在沒有認清她以前,人們為她的貧窮、孤苦而憐憫她;然後又為她在社會上的富麗而羡慕她、愛她。迷人的蓓基?夏潑啊!可一切總會有水落石出的一天,因為,表面的熱情,無法掩藏內心的憎恨。再華麗的外衣,卻總掩飾不了醜惡的靈魂!()在人們認清她之後,誰不唾棄她,厭惡她呢?她的最好的朋友艾米莉婭最後也遠離她,丈夫也不理睬她,兒子不想見她,為一時的華麗與虛偽,她不知道自己付出了多麼大的代價!
當名利有了千瘡百孔時,這才知道,在它最華麗的時候,竟有太多的虛偽,只因為當時我們在名利場上過於投入而不知,等到什麼都看透,才知道所謂的名利不過是刹那煙花。名與利,固然可求,但那並不是生活的全部,人如果過分追求名利,名利就會成為心頭最大的誘惑,人也因此變得貪婪、虛偽,失去了自我,失去了一顆純潔的心。
掩卷沉思,生命中除了名與利還剩下些什麼呢?也許,觥籌交錯,燈紅酒綠中,你會發覺你要的不僅僅是恭維、奉承,還需要一種坦然與真誠,只要善於發現,生活中比名利更重要的還很多很多,面對著寧靜的湖泊和茂密的森林,用一顆大智慧者的心,簡單地活著,簡單地思考,並不是為了名利而活,以出世的心情和入世的態度來體認善良、寬容、謙和、淳樸、友愛、和平與寧靜,尋找身體和心的歸宿,讓時光從你的身外從你的心內慢慢地流逝如水,從中領略生命的全部意義。
走出名利場吧,抹去心靈的塵埃,送上一份慰藉,又何嘗不美麗?人一輩子為名忙,為利忙,而沒有一份心靈釋然的快感,到白髮蒼蒼時定會遺憾,何必為名利犧牲生命的原滋原味呢?
遠離塵囂,尋找一份愛的淨土,塵埃已然落定。
後天英文讀後感
People always thought that probably as a human on the planet Earth is the most senior animal owners who dominate nature. Can be wanton destruction of the earth, nature mutilations. Also for the immediate interests of the greedy nature and the blood drained 、 the nature of the skin stripped 、 nature of the meat-eating. With the thought this will be what kind of consequences. Also claimed ignorance 、 elated to conquer nature. Sing really ridiculous. If another Ice Age in front of us, the humanity will be caught unprepared? Human nature can conquer? No, summer 2004 opening large - 《acquired》 given us a loud and affirmative answer to the question. This terrible disaster films told us an irrefutable truth - always dominate the natural person.
"Acquired" the film depicts the United States as a representative of the Earth within one day suddenly nose-dive into glacial science fiction stories. In the story, climate scientists Jack. Hall observed in the study pointed out that prehistoric climate, the greenhouse effect brought about by global warming could trigger an unprecedented global catastrophe. Mainly refer to the destruction of the beautiful human nature, but by the serious nature of the punishment. Lightning 、 、 hail storm 、 tornado 、 hurricane 、 、 floods caused by global warming, such as the melting of Antarctic ice disaster befall humans, before human consciousness to know repentance may have been too late. In an instant because of the disaster emerged, floods, in the eyes; hail, in the eyes; all in the eyes of force majeure. Entry into the Earth's greenhouse effect will glaciation. Tornado 、 earthquake tsunami 、…… So you ask that the name will become a natural part of human life. In the film, you can see New York City inundated lens: the confusion of the crowd the air vehicle broken glass, followed by the floor, as high waves… you can see in the seaside holiday resort in Hawaii hit by the hurricane scene. This is the destruction of the natural consequences, and this is the punishment of mankind. For thousands of years, continually engulfed in the natural human body, should now enjoy nature of the pernicious consequences of brewing.
名利場英語讀後感
Bunyan once in his book named Pilgrim’s Process described a place named ‘Vanity Fair’ where all kinds of vanity are sold, such as houses, lands, honors, preferments, titles,lusts, pleasures and delights of all sorts. As a matter of fact, we are living in such place today. We gradually become the participants of this fair and loyal followers of these hollow things. Espencially our modern grils’ changing view toward marriage, money and social status. They believe that they could easily live a life like a grand lady without making any efforts if they marry a wealthy man. As female college students, how to stick to our own belief and aviod being assimilated by the complex society, Thackeray’s novel Vanity Fair could give us a good instruction. Through the Rebacca’s attitude towards money, social status and marriage, I realize what is most important thing for a female.
Thackeray described the life of ruling classes of England in the early decades of the 19th century, and attacked the social relationship of bourgeois world by satirizing the individuals in the different strata of the upper society. Rebacca(becky) Sharp is a classic example of the money-grubbing instinct. Her only aspiration in life is to gain wealth and position by any means. Thackeray does not regard Rebacca as an exception. Everyone wishes to gain something in the Vanity Fair and acts almost in the same manner as Rebacca.
As an orphan, Rebacca’s birth can easily win our tears. It is an undenible fact that she is quite an ambitious and clever girl. As far as I am concerned, she could easily live a decent life with her own hand. However, because of the society and the innate deficits in her characteristics, she becomes very sophisticate and even tried to suduce her best friend’s brother so that she could win her place in the upper society and other’s admiration. However, for the people in the upper class, Rebacca’s humble birth cuold never be erased even though she married a rich man. In other’s eye, she was just a coquette who was quite good at suducing rich men. Why not use your own hand to create a bright future and win others’ true respect instead of relying on the man’s shoulder.
Rebacca liveed in a society which is ruled by money, everyone was crazy about money, Rebacca was no exception. She held the dream of living a life of a grand lady, wearing luxurious clothes and shining dimonds. In order to realize her dream, she used all kinds of immoral means to win the love of rich men. Finally, she got married with Rawdon Crawley, a good man who will inherit a large sum of money from her ant. However, the old lady refused because Crawley married Rebacca---a woman of low social status. Rebacca and her husband live a quite luxurious life in Pairs even though they could not make the both ends meet. Finally, Mr.Crawley was put in to prison because of heavy debets, while Rebacca started searching for another rich man who can pay for her luxurious bills. Rebacca betrayed her soul in the process of pursuiting money and gradually forgot the meaning of love.
Marriage is a holy thing in everyone’s life, but if you regard marriage as a good method of gaining money and improving your social status, you will suffer a lot from it. Although you live a decent life and gain other’s admiration,you may never be ture happy because you never know what is love and responsibilty. Rebacca’s marriage is a good example. She took a quite easy attitude towords marriage. Her marriage was just a method which helped her get in to the upper class and live a rich life. Ther is no wonder that she was so cruel to her husband and flirted with another rich man when her husband was in the prison. Here I want to mention another female----Amelia, a girl of simple mind. In Rebacca’s mind she was a fool. At first, she held the same view as Rebacca. Her husband’s death in the war made her become a sorrowful widow. Till one day Rebacca told her that her husband once asked Rebaccato run with him. Amelia was angry and married a man who has taken care of her for several years uncomplainly. Amelia is not a cold hearted women, although her dream of being a grand lady had vanished,but she experienced a life of being truly loved. While for Rebacca, she will forever lived in the Vanity Fair and never has the chance to experience this kind of love. In my eye , Amelia is wiser than her.
Rebacca is a tragic female during that period. Although this novel ended with a happy ending--- Rebacca got marriad with Amelia’s brother and inherited a large sum of money, liveed a grand lady’s life ---who dare to say that Rebacca will stop betraying her soul and keep away from Vanity Fair? I would like to give an advice to her and to the grils in our modern society: please keep always from Vanity, and take a correct attitude towards money, social status and marriage. Money is not every in our life. The improvement of our social status needs our own efforts instead of relying on others. Mrriage is a holly thing in our girls’ life, which requires our responsibility and loyalty. Or we will forever live in a hollow world and the dream of vanity will finally destory us.